Happy's quote (1)
November life quote written in 2024.
I've decided to start updating a new series of life maxims about myself, to record what is important to me. To keep them in my heart at all times.
Don’t overestimate your importance in others’ minds, or you’ll be disappointed.
Friendship, relationships, and someone’s affection are all fluid. They are dynamic, not based on numerical standards, and they are not eternal.
When someone can do something small for you but chooses not to, set a boundary in your heart. Mutual understanding requires a certain level of trust.
Love contains a lot of loneliness and sadness, but it is also the most powerful energy. It is a skill that needs to be learned and applied.
Take responsibility for what you say. It’s okay to make mistakes. No one is without flaws, just learn from them.
Being sincere is good, but not everyone deserves it.
People who make you question yourself are strange. No need to explain.
When you realize that many moments when you needed someone’s company were actually moments you walked through alone, your heart grows a little stronger.
There are so many people in the world you can meet and befriend, so never lower your standards for selection. The hardest truth you’ll learn is that many people are worse than you thought.
Do not hold expectations for others.
When good things happen, treat them as free blessings, not as something you are entitled to.
The best way to show gratitude is in the present moment.
I have my vulnerabilities, yet I am also strong enough.
Your existence itself is complete.
Choose how much transparency you want to maintain with someone you just met. Protecting your heart is important.
People are complex. Don’t try to understand others’ motives.
When you are truly happy, it is obvious in your expression. When you like someone deeply, you don’t need words—your smile already tells the answer.
Remember, always hold the umbrella for yourself first.
I hope everyone can feel relieved every time they need these words.
決定開始記錄一系列關於自己的人生格言，銘記對此刻的我來說重要的事物。
1. 不要高估自己在別人心裡的重量，你會很失望。
2. 友情、人際關係、對一個人的好感，都是流動的。它是動態，不是數字標準，也不會永恆。
3. 從一件小事對方能做到卻不願意為了你做時，先劃出心裡的界線。想要「互相體諒」需要一定的信任。
4. 「愛」裡面同時也包含很多孤獨與悲傷，但也是個最強大的能量，它是個是需要學習並使用的能力。
5. 為說過的話負責，出錯了也沒關係。沒有人不會犯錯，記取教訓。
6. 真誠很好，但不是所有人都值得。
7. 讓你質疑自己的人，很奇怪。不用解釋。
8. 當你知道很多需要別人陪伴瞬間都是靠著自己走過來的時候，你的心又更強壯了一點。
9. 世界上有非常非常多的人你可以認識、成為朋友，永遠不要降低自己篩選的標準。事實最後給你的重擊就是很多人比你想像中還要差勁。
10. 不要對他人抱有期待。
11. 遇到好事的時候當作得到了免費的祝福，不是理所當然。
12. 感謝最好的表現方式就是「當下」。
13. 我有脆弱的部分，同時我也足夠堅強。
14. 你的存在本身就是完整的。
15. 要選擇自己在一個剛認識的人面前要保持多少的透明度，保護自己的心很重要。
16. 人很複雜、不用試圖理解別人的動機。
17. 真正開心的時候，表情其實很明顯。足夠喜歡一個人的時候，不用語言，你的笑容已經告訴了你答案。
18. 記得永遠、先為自己撐傘。
我會期許每個人在每個需要這些文字的時間，都能感到寬慰。
Song of today 🎵
